Elder Sons
I’ve been captivated by the story of the Prodigal Son(s) this past week. It’s truly the story of 2 lost sons – one knew he was lost and the other did not. The elder son is characterized by anger, pride and insecurity when he doesn’t get what he feels he deserves from the Father.
I highly recommend Timothy Keller’s book, “The Prodigal God,” to help you have a new appreciation for Jesus’ parable as well.
Do we have elder sons within God’s church? Uhh…yeah. Last week I presented at the Regional Outreach Conference put on by Lutheran Hour Ministries. It was wonderful. I was invited to share about some of Bethlehem’s outreach efforts and partnerships through “the table.” I started to get on a role about how God’s church must care for the lost, lame, least and poor – you’ve heard the rant – and a lady interrupted me and said, “That’s all well and good pastor…but what about us? What about caring for the members?” She might as well of had a neon sign blinking on her forehead saying, “Elder son.” Now, don’t get me wrong, as pastors and caregivers we are honored to care for the saints of God…but we’re also called to equip the saints to CELEBRATE over younger lost sons being found.
I’m growing to dislike the term “member.” It gives the idea that God’s people have “benefits” (ie – the pastor better take care of my needs and deliver each week from the pulpit). Granted, we receive more benefits than we could possibly imagine in God’s Word and Sacrament…and yet “member” speaks very little toward our call to welcome and care for lost sons and daughters.
“Disciple” is a better descriptor. We’re simply followers of Jesus who desire to encourage others to follow Him too.
May we repent of our tendency to be elder sons. May we all see how lost we are but for the grace of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.